About me
I’m an integrative counsellor and sex & relationships therapist in training, offering a warm, collaborative space for individuals who want to explore life's challenges and work towards deeper awareness, understanding and acceptance.
My approach brings together psychodynamic, person‑centred and psychosexual therapy, with a strong focus on attachment and relational dynamics. I tend to work in a long-term, open-ended way to allow unconscious material to emerge and integrate.
Based in Peckham, South East London, and working online wherever you are, I work with people from all backgrounds, genders and sexualities and am committed to inclusive, trauma‑informed and anti‑oppressive practice.
✔ Enhanced DBS check
Individual therapy
Based on your individual needs, we will work together to unpick narratives, process trauma and understand how attachment wounds rooted in the past are playing out in the present.
Whether you're navigating grief, trauma, big life changes or relationship issues, therapy can help identify patterns, shed light on unconscious processes to open the door to new ways of being.
Themes I work with:
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Anxiety and self-esteem
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Relational dynamics
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Bereavement and loss
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Religion, culture, identity
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Significant life changes
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Developmental trauma
Psychosexual therapy
As a trainee psychosexual and relationships therapist with the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology, I offer reduced‑rate sessions for clients seeking support around sexual wellbeing and intimacy.
I work with individuals and couples to address sex and relationship concerns such as desire differences, erection or orgasm difficulties, anxiety around intimacy, compulsive sexual behaviours, or the impact of past experiences on sexual connection.
Areas I work with:
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Low desire and orgasm problems
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Difficulty maintaining erections
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Delayed and premature/early ejaculation
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Pain and penetration problems (vaginismus, vulvodynia etc.)
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Separation, divorce and infidelity
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Navigating relationship diversity and ethical non-monogamy
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Fertility, abortion and reproductive loss
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Sexuality & gender identity exploration
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Pleasure, kinks and fetishes
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Sexual violence and childhood sexual abuse
From September 2026, I will be offering couples sessions at a reduced rate. If you would like to join the waitlist, get in touch.
Booking and fees
Availability
I work in-person with clients at HumanKind Psychotherapy in Peckham on Monday, Wednesday and Thursday evenings.
I also offer online sessions.
Assessment and ongoing sessions
Once we've had a 50 minute assessment session and you decide to go ahead, ongoing 50 minute sessions will take place at the same time weekly over an open-ended period.
Fees
Individual counselling (including assessment): from £80.
Psychosexual therapy (including assessment) : from £65.
Intimate partner therapy
I am operating a waiting list for intimate partner therapy for September 2026 (couples, polycules).
Sessions operate on a sliding scale from £80.
Enquiries
If you are looking for weekly therapy sessions and would like to enquire about availability, please contact me at helenwallertherapy@gmail.com or fill in the form.
Location
HumanKind Psychotherapy
95a Rye Lane
Peckham Levels, Level 4
London
SE15 4ST